Executive Function Coaching
Coaching for Parents of Teenagers to Guide Your Child through the Toughest Years of their Lives!
Even when you’re giving them a gentle reminder, your teen children might think of you as a “Buzzing” alarm clock. Every chance you take at a reconciliation, might backfire.
There’s absolutely no doubt you want the best for your child. You might have even devised your own parental tactics and strategies to turn them into capable and responsible young adults. But as your children get into their “Teen” years, those tactics and strategies won’t work anymore.
The Family Reality
Teenage years are the transition period for your children’s lives. What you do and how you handle their problems, will shape their future and decide what type of person they’ll become.
At this stage of their lives, children are trying hard to fit in, figure out what life is, where they belong in the society and their friend circle, and where they want to see themselves in the future.
These young souls are dealing with peer pressure, societal expectations, the race we call “Technology,” and ups and downs in their lives. Trust me, they are a mess and it’s an emotional rollercoaster.
- The Parent’s Dilemma
At the same time, parents have a dilemma of their own. They keep questioning themselves:
- My Teen child isn’t talking to me, I wonder why?
- Why aren’t they motivated to take on responsibilities?
- How does everything I say turn into a heated discussion?
- How do we help without worsening the situation?
⚠️ Notice: the clear disconnect among both the parties? These questions are ever so common in people.
Teen Psychology & Insights
Explaining the Underlying Problem of Teen Psychology
Your teen’s attitude and behavior towards you might have an underlying cause you’re not noticing. Putting off work for tomorrow might just be the “Fear” of failing at it.
Overwhelmed & Insecure
If your teen is avoiding responsibilities, it might just be overwhelming to him/her. Sometimes young adults make bad decisions; this might stem from peer pressure or insecurity.
Executive Function Struggles
OR, your teen might just lack the initiative and might struggle with executive functions in day-to-day lives. This affects their ability to plan tasks, time management, focus, and execution.
- Life Coach Perspective
As parents, you often see the outbursts, but never the deeper reasons contributing to said outbursts. As a teenage life coach, I help parents piecing together all the hints and see the driving force behind your child’s erratic behavior.
The Family Reality
How My Parent Coaching Program for Teens Helps?
As a teen life coach, I’ve met and had discussions with several parents. I’ve noticed parents insisting on behavioral change “Fitting into the society” without investigating and nullifying the root cause of their negligence. I collaborate with such parents and help them understand the psychology of their children.
No Judgment, No Therapy
I’m not counselling you; I’m not assigning you to therapy sessions, and I’m certainly not judging your style of managing your kid. We work directly with raw real-life occurrences.
Connection & Empathy
Rather, I’m having this journey with you where you’ll emotionally get close to your teenage son/daughter, understand their problems, try and form a bond with them, and slowly steer them in the right direction. Not by force, but through understanding and empathy.
Progress, Not Perfection
I’m not trying to morph you into a perfect parent. My goal is a “Progress” where you’ll form a better relationship with your teen. Small steps create massive shifts over time.
"I’m Not in Favor of Controlling Your Child but I DO Want to Help You Prepare them for the Future!"
Teenage years of your child’s life is just a phase. It’ll pass. However, the habits, their beliefs, routines, and skillsets your child gains here will stay with him for life! Your kid needs your help! And I, through my coaching, will help you figure out how you can do just that!
Course Outcomes & Benefits
What Changes Will You Notice?
Coaching for parents of teenagers won’t magically solve every challenge within your family lives. Teenagers are prone to making bad decisions and mistakes. They’ll continue to do so.
Connection
Better Communication
his course will help you in handling such occurrences. For example, you’ll improve your communication skills with your child. You’ll notice fewer arguments in your day-to-day lives.
- Tangible Family Milestone
productive
Productive Conversations
One-to-One talks and group conversations will slowly become more productive than before. Also, certain boundaries between you and your teenage children will be clearer.
- Tangible Family Milestone
growth
Mutual Trust & Faith
You’ll notice your kids trusting you more than before. Slowly but surely, they’ll learn to have faith in themselves and you, learn to be confident, resilient, and responsible as adults.
- Tangible Family Milestone
I’m Not in Favor of Controlling Your Child but I DO Want to Help You Prepare them for the Future!
Teenage years of your child’s life is just a phase. It’ll pass. However, the habits, their beliefs, routines, and skillsets your child gains here will stay with him for life!
Your Kid Needs Your Help!
And I, through my coaching, will help you figure out how you can do just that!
🏅 ICF PCC Certified Life Coach
Who Am I?
“I’m Andrew Perillo, from Portland, Oregon. I’m an ICF PCC certified life coach for teens and parents.”
I believe and follow a direct approach in my coaching where I help families understand where their problems are, offer them practical solutions, and get to a meaningful level of progress as time goes by.
Credentials
ICF PCC Coach
Service Area
Portland & Online
Focus
Teens & Parents
Andrew Perillo (Andrew Petrillo)
Life Coach for Teens & Parents
Portland, Oregon
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Take the first critical step toward resolving disconnects. Secure a focused strategy call directly with Andrew to discuss your family circumstances.
- Pragmatic, action-oriented guidance
- Completely free of charge & confidential
- No-obligation assessment of custom strategies
Answering Some of Your Toughest Questions!
Let’s answer some of the questions that you may have about our approach to coaching for parents of teens and relevant topics.
Can Parent Coaching Help People Who Have Stubborn Children?
Yes. As teens grow up and have a taste of an “Independent” life, they will push you back. They will become rebellious to your guidance, advice, and rules. Communication becomes harder at this point of their lives. Parents’ coaching will help you understand the underlying cause of your teen’s rebellious nature and behavior AND it will help you get through to your child while strengthening your bonds.
Will Your Coaching Teach Me to be a Better Version of Me as a Parent?
In some ways, yes.
As I’ve been saying, I’m not a therapist. Nor am I a teacher. I won’t criticize your way of parenting your child. We’ll work together with the information we have.
I’ll take a note of your unique circumstances as a family, formulate a strategy which will help you navigate your situation, and practice what works for you. At the end of the day, my goal is to promote better understanding among your children and family members.
Will Your Coaching Teach Me to be a Better Version of Me as a Parent?
In some ways, yes.
As I’ve been saying, I’m not a therapist. Nor am I a teacher. I won’t criticize your way of parenting your child. We’ll work together with the information we have.
I’ll take a note of your unique circumstances as a family, formulate a strategy which will help you navigate your situation, and practice what works for you. At the end of the day, my goal is to promote better understanding among your children and family members.
Can Your Parent Coaching Program Help People with ADHD or Anxiety-affected Children?
Yes, it will.
My team and I have a history of working with parents who have teenage children with ADHD and anxiety issues. The children lack focus, confidence, and executive skills in their day-to-day lives.
Every child is different, we understand. However, coaching for parents of Teenage Children will help people in identifying what’s causing the issues to begin with and help their kids through patience, empathy, a fruitful routine, and specific tasks.
How Soon Will I Notice Things Changing for the Better?
It’s hard to give you a timeline. Every family has its own challenges and issues. Several parents I worked with, noticed positive changes such as improving familial situations, better understanding, and less tension among household members within weeks.
However, long-standing issues such as negative habits, lack of motivation, fragile bonds among people, and anxiety issues take time to heal. This is because we work to improve relationships, strict routines for day-to-day functions, and challenges in life your teen will face.